9 Thing Your One On One Music Teacher Will Not Tell You

9 Thing Your One On One Music Teacher Will Not Tell You

9 Thing Your One On One Music Teacher Will Not Tell You

Even today in the era of online learning I still find parents who insist that nothing can take the place of one on one piano lessons. While this is true, it is not absolutely true. 

This I would have to say is the GREAT one on one piano class hoax.

There is a time and a place for online lessons, like one on one lessons but it is not a zero sum game. 

But there are many false myths surrounding one on one classes and that is one of the reason that many people think that it is far superior to online classes. 

So in this post, I’m going to address those myths and bring to light some of the secrets your one on one teacher will never tell you. 

 

You Understand Your Child

As a parent you understand your child and his or her learning style better than anyone else. Even better than someone who has a degree in education or music or early childhood education and I’m sure that is something your music teacher has never told you. 

 

You Are Resourceful

As a parent who is highly involved in their kids education, you are resourceful and you do it out of love, not for money. Thus making you even better at being able to understand and cater to the specific learning needs of your child, than your child’s music teacher. 

 

You Can Learn Alongside Your Child

Even though you may not have formal training in music, with the right tools and resources, you can learn alongside your child and teach your child, be resourceful and customize the material to suit your child’s learning styles. 

I do understand that this is not for everyone. Because not every parent has the time, inclination nor the energy. 

But if you are here reading this post, then you are an exception to the rule and one that is definitely willing to make the sacrifices required. 

 

The Bonding Experience Will Be Priceless

When you teach your own child and learn alongside your child, the bonding experience will be truly amazing. 

Don’t believe me? Then, ask any of the parents who have used the Teach Your Child Piano program and succeeded and they all say that the bonding experience alone was worth the trouble. 

 

Piano Lessons Will Be More Relaxed And Natural

What is more relaxed, being able to learn piano in your PJs, or getting dressed and going once a week for your piano lessons or tidying up the house and waiting for your child’s piano teacher to come? 

With piano lessons at home that are driven by you rather than a one on one teacher, you will work around your schedule and the natural schedule of your child, rather than the teacher’s and thus make the lessons very natural and relaxed. 

 

Higher Success Rates

When parents are highly involved and learn alongside their kids, the success rates at the initial stages are really high. 

Don’t believe me? Then read this post 6 ‘No Fail’ Strategies To Increase Your Child’s Success Rate When Taking Offline Music Lessons. 

 

Time And Financial Savings

One on One Piano Lessons can be very expensive as well as time consuming and in the long run haven’t been shown to be better than group lessons, or online lessons.

The results are usually very inconsistent and therefore it is hard to draw conclusions either way, even though your piano teacher may have told you otherwise. 

 

Online Lessons Continue To Improve

One of the biggest hoaxes that offline piano teachers tend to insist upon is that online lessons cannot engage kids the same as way as offline. 

This often depends on a variety of factors. 

However, you have to remember that online learning is relatively new and has made immensely great strides over the years and will continue to do so in the coming years as well. 

Still not convinced if online piano is for your kid or not. Then read my posts 6 ‘Must Know’ Reasons Why Online Courses Are Not For Your Child, and 6 ‘Huge’ Reasons Why Online Music Courses Are Far Better Than Offline Courses.

 

Have you been told any of these lies before? Which ones do you still believe in and why? 

Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

Homeschool Mom

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This program reminded me (and allowed me to teach my son) how to read music. To me, that was the most important thing that we learned together. Of course, it was very rewarding for me to watch my son play the piano with both hands at the same time, while reading sheet music. His favorite parts of the course were actually playing the songs and doing the worksheets provided.

Carrie M.

Stay At Home Mom

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You know, long before I started teaching parents how to teach their kids to play the piano, I used to help out in my mother’s studio as well as my aunt’s piano studio as a teenager. 

There I used to teach kids of all ages on a one on one basis and I met hundreds and hundreds of piano parents over the years. 

As an educational psychology enthusiast I used to observe the parents, their knowledge of music, their involvement in their kids music education and the corresponding success or failure rate of the kids. 

Over the years, I gathered so much of information through my analysis that I could almost predict the outcomes and say who would continue on with their music education and who wouldn’t and what that would be predicated on. 

So, today I thought I should go more into depth and draw on that experience to help you increase your child’s success rate when taking offline music classes. 

Now, let’s get started. 

 

Create Good Habits

Most of the kids that continued on with their piano classes, were those with parents who helped them, supported them and even nagged them to develop good habits. 

Habits like practicing for a short while every single day. 

Practicing and reviewing what they learned previously, before showing up to the next class, and most importantly helping the kids stay consistent. 

That means, practicing for 10 minutes each day, instead of practicing for 3 hours once a month. 

 

Supplement Learning

In those days there was no online learning with which offline learning could be supplemented.

However, many of the successful piano parents I knew often supplemented the kids learning, by ensuring that they focused on music theory, read books on music history and basically added music into their daily lives, not simply at the twice weekly music class. 

 

Celebrate Victories

The piano parents with kids that continued on over the years even when the going got tough, were the ones who often celebrated their children’s victories even though those victories were really small.

This motivated the kids and helped them to stay the course. 

 

Ensure All Learning Styles Were Engaged

This one was more on my mom and aunt rather than the parents themselves. However, I will include it here. In our piano studios, we ensured that kids saw what they played, played what the heard and heard what they saw. 

Which means they were able to read music notes well, and could read and write music and thus were able to engage all senses. This in turn helped visual, auditory and kinesthetic learners to stay engaged, because we catered to all the different learning styles. 

So what can you learn from this? 

Ensure that you know what your child’s learning style is and make sure that the piano studio she learns at, is aware of the style and is able to engage her in a meaningful manner. 

 

Focus On Progress

Again, at the time when I was teaching in my mom’s studio I had never heard of Carol Dweck or the growth mindset, but I did observe that kids’ whose parents were not hyper focused on perfection were often the ones who succeeded. 

And today I know why, and I still continue to see with my own kids and with my students that those with a growth mindset, who accept progress over perfection are the ones who are more resilient and able to trudge along even when learning plateaus. 

 

Became Involved And Learned Music Themselves

I saved what I believed was the most important point for the last. An overwhelming number of parents whose kids succeeded at piano were those that hadn’t had any formal musical training themselves, but yet, were super involved in their kids learning and learned to play the piano themselves. No, they didn’t actually become my aunt’s or my mom’s students, but rather they learned along with their kids and helped them along or had their kids help them and thus, found a lot of enjoyment in it. 

 

What do you think? Do you think you can do any or all of the above with your kids to ensure that they stick with piano lessons in the long term? 

 

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Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

Homeschool Mom

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Once your child is able to name all the notes on the keyboard, it is imperative to play games in order to reinforce the learning and also to ensure quick recall and build the foundation for reading music notes. 

Learning the names of the notes on the keyboard is the first step in learning to read music notes and once your child starts learning to read music notes, there are a variety of challenges he/she will face. However, one of those challenges should not be the inability to accurately know the name of the white notes on the keyboard. 

Therefore, working through this part of the journey, slowly and thoroughly will help your child in the long run. 

Unfortunately, when learning to play the piano kids are very eager at the start and therefore, slowing down the teaching can be hard. 

This is why when reinforcing concepts it is important to play games, as it will keep the enthusiasm levels high. 

Here are five games that you can play with your kids to keep the enthusiasm high, while also making them highly proficient in finding their way around the keyboard. 

Remember to download the music theory worksheet that I have made available with this post. 

 

Pre-requisites

Kids have to know all the names of the white notes on the keyboard. If you haven’t taught them the note names, please go to my post, The Absolute Best Way To Teach Your Child To Name Notes On The Keyboard – Step 1.

 

Things You Will Need

Paper/Whiteboard

Pen/Erasable Marker

Coloured Beads/Buttons/PebblesTokens/Mini Action Hero Figures

Flashcards (optional)

 

 

Learning Your Way Around The Keyboard – Game 1

Call out the name of a note and ask your child to play it on the keyboard. 

Eg. You call out G and your child can play any G on the keyboard. 

Repeat at least 11 more times with different note names. 

 

Learning Your Way Around The Keyboard – Game 2

Another variation of the above game is to call out the name of the note and ask your child to play all the notes with that name on the keyboard.

Eg. If you call out D, your child should play all 7 Ds on the keyboard starting with D1. 

 

Learning Your Way Around The Keyboard – Game 3

Call out a specific note with a number and ask your child to keep a bead/pebble/button on the note. 

Eg. If you called out E4, then your child should leave the pebble on the 4th E (starting from the left of the keyboard). 

 

Learning Your Way Around The Keyboard – Game 4

Leave pebbles/buttons/beads on different notes on the keyboard and ask your child to write down the names on the paper/whiteboard. 

 

Learning Your Way Around The Keyboard – Game 5

Call out or write 3 – 5 different names in quick succession and ask your child to leave pebbles on the notes that you named in the order you called/wrote. 

 

Bonus: Reverse And Repeat

Reverse the above exercise. Ask your child to call out or write 3 – 5 different names in quick succession and you leave pebbles on the notes.

Ask your child to check your work. 

Tip: Deliberately make a mistake (but don’t overdo it), to give your child the opportunity to correct you. The confidence boost he will get from it is priceless. 

 

Fun aren’t they?

You can play these games even when you are in the middle of teaching them to find their way around the keyboard. 

What other games can you think of playing with your kids to help reinforce their learning?

Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

Homeschool Mom

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Teach your child to play piano, today.

Yes, in as little as 30 minutes I can show you how to teach your child to play the piano, for FREE.

What are you waiting for?

This program reminded me (and allowed me to teach my son) how to read music. To me, that was the most important thing that we learned together. Of course, it was very rewarding for me to watch my son play the piano with both hands at the same time, while reading sheet music. His favorite parts of the course were actually playing the songs and doing the worksheets provided.

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Are you just like me? 

In the past I used to follow tons of homeschool bloggers and downloaded hundreds of printables, purchased over two dozen courses for my kids and was constantly trying to get them into something or another. 

Unfortunately I never stuck with anything long enough to actually enrich their minds. 

They were often skipping from one thing to another, and not gaining any traction, whatsoever.

 

Furthermore, my costs were going through the roof, and I didn’t feel that I was getting anything useful out of the courses nor the printables. 

 

This didn’t necessarily mean that the products that I was getting for free, or purchasing weren’t high quality, but rather that I was all over the place, extremely haphazard in my use of it and most importantly extremely disorganized. 

 

If you are going through the same things right now, I’m sure you totally understand how overwhelming and frustrating it can all be. 

 

So, I’m here to tell you that, you can get organized. I finally did it and I’m sure you can too. 

 

In this post, I will be sharing seven really important tips on how you can get organized and providing you with printable to get you started right now. 

 

Decide On The Top Goal

Yes, I felt that this was the key game changer for me. I decided on my top goal. 

I wanted to teach my kids Greek Mythology. 

Now, if you are a full time homeschooler (I’m not), you will have more than one goal. That’s ok. 

List out the subjects you want to teach your kids, each subject can be a top goal or a specific area in each subject can be a top goal (remember, to have different lists of goals for each child). 

 

Follow 3 – 5 Bloggers Who Cover The Subject Area

In my case I found three edupreneurs, who specialized in Greek Mythology (it is not as easy as it seems), and decided to follow them. 

If you are going to teach your 7 year old ELA, Math and History, then it is best you find 3 – 5 bloggers/edupreneurs who are experts in the area and follow them.

Now, do you understand, why I wanted you to create a list per child? 

 

Write Down Everything You Need

Yes, in my case I needed colourfully illustrated, well written books pertaining to Greek Mythology. 

Besides that, I also needed printables and other material even courses (if available) for the 7 – 9 year age group on Greek Mythology. 

This step was another game changer, because now that I had a fully fledged list of materials I needed, I was focused in my search and was able to make the most of my very limited budget. 

As a result of this list, I also had to stop following one edupreneur (as she did not service the 7 – 9 age group). 

 

Download/Source/Organize

Now, once your list is done, all you have to do is check if the blogger/edupreneurs you follow can help you source the material you need. 

They may have provided reviews and recommendations on the books that you should buy. Many times, they may have created printables and you might be able to get what you need for free, or buy it when it is on sale. 

Once, you’ve sourced all the material or at least a part of the material you should start organizing it by subject, and in order that it has to be used. 

If you purchased any courses, make sure you write down all relevant log in information, and have emails and receipts to prove you purchased it, just in case, you get locked out of the account. 

Schedule And Be Consistent

This was another huge area where I failed. 

I failed at being consistent and simply jumped from one subject area to another without much thought. 

So the first thing to do was to schedule time for lessons in Greek Mythology, twice a week for 20 minutes. 

Once I put it on my calendar for Mondays and Thursdays at 4pm. I was more consistent and the kids knew it was time for Greek Mythology, so there were no grumblings and they actually started enjoying the consistency. 

Stick To One Method

This can be a book or a series of books or a series of printables/puzzels/methods/courses. Either way stick to one, complete it and then move on to the other. 

This I found also helped me stay very focused and get things done. 

The kids were able to retain everything they learned and I felt very accomplished and most importantly we were able to move up a level in less than six months. 

 

Rinse And Repeat

Yes, you can rinse and repeat this strategy with several subjects running simultaneously or every time you achieve a milestone, you can move to the next stage with the same strategy. 

Want a printable to map out all the steps listed out above? Then simply click here. 

Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

Homeschool Mom

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Teaching notes and rests, their values and how they can be identified, and played is extremely easy if homeschooling parents have access to the correct tools and guidance. 

Therefore today I’m going to give you the necessary tools and also explain the exact steps you can use to easily introduce the Eighth Rest to your kids. 

So what are Eighth Rests? They are similar in value to Eighth Notes, but no note is played. 

They basically extend the silence by half a beat. 

If you haven’t already introduced the Eighth Note, do that first, you can find the steps, flashcard and printable in the post 6 ‘Shockingly Simple’ Ways To Teach Eighth Notes. 

And here’s how you can introduce the Eighth Rest to your kids in the homeschool.

 

Show The Note And The Rest

Yes, it is as easy as that.  

Show them the flashcard of the note and the rest side by side. 

Tell them that the Eighth Rest (point to it) is similar to the Eighth Note and consists of 1/2 a beat.

 

Explain The Difference

Don’t forget to explain the difference. 

With an Eighth Note, we actually play a note, but with an Eighth Rest we don’t play a note, rather, there is silence for 1/2 a beat, wherever there is an Eighth Rest. 

 

Ask Them Both Names

Yes, ask them to tell you the alternate name for the Eighth Rest. 

Since they know that the Eighth Note is called a Quaver, it is very likely that they will make the connection and tell you that the alternate name for the Eighth Rest is a Quaver Rest. 

 

Clapping

Now comes the interesting part. Ask them to clap the Quaver Rest. 

Remember, a Quaver Rest means there is silence for 1/2 a beat, so there is no clapping only counting. 

 

Understanding The Eighth Rest

To make the previous step less confusing, you draw or show a Whole/Half or Quarter Note before two Eighth Rests. Then ask them to clap. 

So, they should clap for the specific note you drew, then count the correct number of beats for that note, and finally count 1 beat to signify the two Eighth Rest. 

 

On The Keyboard

Repeat the above step on the keyboard. 

Have them play the note first and count the corresponding number of beats and then count an additional 1 beat to signify the two Eighth Rests. 

 

Writing The Quarter Rest

Now teach them how to correctly write the Eighth Rest. 

Please use the printable I have included for this exercise.

 

Identifying The Quarter Rest

Finally it is time to look at different sheets of music and identify the Eighth Rests. 

Again you can use the printable I have included for this post. 

 

Easy, isn’t it? 

So what are you waiting for? 

Grab the printable and the flashcard and go get started. 

Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

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Yes, in as little as 30 minutes I can show you how to teach your child to play the piano, for FREE.

What are you waiting for?

This program reminded me (and allowed me to teach my son) how to read music. To me, that was the most important thing that we learned together. Of course, it was very rewarding for me to watch my son play the piano with both hands at the same time, while reading sheet music. His favorite parts of the course were actually playing the songs and doing the worksheets provided.

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If you’ve looked closely at a sheet of music, you have no doubt realized that it consists of a variety of different types of notes. 

Those that are noteheads with no stems, outlined noteheads with stems and solid black notes with stems , flags and beams. 

So what does this mean?

Each of these elements like stems, flags and beams signify the type and value of the note and learning to decipher the difference is very important. 

Therefore, today I will be explaining how you can introduce ‘Eighth Notes’ to your kids in the homeschool in just six shockingly simple steps. 

Don’t forget to download the printable I have included, so you can take your child’s learning to the next level. 

 

Show And Tell

It’s as simple as that. 

Just show a flashcard with an Eighth Note, or draw it out on a paper or white board or simply point it out on a piece of sheet music and tell your child that a solid black note with a stem and a flag is called an Eighth Note. 

 

Other Names

Now tell your child that while in North America we call this type of note, an ‘Eighth Note’, in other parts of the world, especially in Asia and Europe the note is called a Quaver. 

 

Clapping And Counting

Now that your child can identify the note and knows both its names, it is time to explain that an Eighth Note/Quaver consists of 1/2 a beat. 

This means when played on the piano, you play two eighth notes in 1 beat.

If there are two eighth notes beamed together or separate, then you clap both in quick succession in 1 beat. 

 

Writing The Note

Next, you can show your child how to write an Eighth Note on a line, and in a space, as well as over the stave, hanging from the stave, as Middle C and ledger line notes. 

This would also be a good time to teach your child the stem rules and the flag and beam rules.

 

Identifying Eighth Notes

Now, show your child some sheet music (if you don’t have any handy, use the sheet music in the printable I have made available) and ask your child to identify all the Eighth Notes. 

 

On The Keyboard

Next have your child play Eighth Notes. 

For this you can simply draw a treble or bass staff on a piece of paper and write out a few Eighth Notes on different lines and spaces and have your child read the notes. 

If your child cannot read music notes as yet, you can still have your child play Middle Cs. 

For this you need to draw about four Middle Cs on a paper (as Eighth Notes), have your child play two Middle Cs in quick succession for the 1st beat and the next two in quick succession for the 2nd beat.

 

Easy enough don’t you think?

Now, don’t forget to download the printable included so you can reinforce the concepts taught here. 

Karen Cadera

Karen Cadera

Founder/Creator

Mom, Teacher, Minimalist, Zero Waste Enthusiast, Multi Pod.

My daughter loved the games, but there were also worksheets and videos. The weekly lesson plans were complete, and I never questioned what I should be doing next.

Lisa Tanner

Homeschool Mom

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